Sometimes, it almost seems as if the older you get, the pressure for you to be in a relationship (and find someone to settle down) becomes really intense; as someone who makes it a point to never let others determine how I live my life, I've never understood the amount of criticism that books about being single and happy have gotten. When I was younger, I used to feel self conscious about the fact that everyone around me seemed to be getting together while I was alone. After realizing that there was nothing wrong with riding solo, I learned to not worry about my status and instead decided to focus on ways to improve my quality of life (and I haven't turned back since). That being said, these books about being single and happy will show you why you should always celebrate your "singledom".
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1. It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single
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On Amazon at: amazon.com
Reading so many books about being single and happy has really changed my perspective on everyone's two favorite questions to ask: “Are you dating anyone? Why are you still single?” One of the greatest aspects of Sara Eckel's love letter to the single life is the fact that she stresses that there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right person (or not wanting to date at all) and then proceeds to back up her point with stellar research.
Sara Eckel's book "It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single" is a much needed addition to the conversation on single life and happiness. It is a refreshingly honest and humorous look at the single life and why it is ok to be single.
The book is divided into 27 chapters, each of which examines a different wrong reason that people are single. Eckel's research is thorough and she backs up her points with facts and statistics. She also provides helpful advice on how to be happy and fulfilled while single.
The book also addresses the stigma that is often attached to being single. Eckel argues that being single is not a problem that needs to be fixed and that it is ok to wait for the right person or to not want to date at all. She also encourages readers to take control of their lives and to create their own happiness.
2. Never Have I Ever: My Life (so Far) without a Date
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On Google Play at: play.google.com
If I didn't already think that we need more books that celebrate being single (and fabulous), I definitely would after reading this brilliant piece by Katie Heaney! After reading this, you'll understand why you should never date for the sake of being in a relationship. Fellow twentysomethings will get a kick out of her humorous and honest nature.
Katie Heaney's book Never Have I Ever: My Life (so Far) Without a Date is a must-read for any twentysomething looking for an honest and humorous look at being single. Heaney's story follows her journey of being single and celebrates it in a way that is both positive and empowering.
The book is filled with anecdotes and advice from Heaney and her friends, as well as personal reflections on her own experiences. Heaney's writing style is both witty and relatable, making it easy to connect with her story. She covers topics ranging from dating to friendships to career goals, and she offers a refreshing perspective on life that is both inspiring and encouraging.
Heaney's book is an important reminder that being single doesn't mean being lonely or incomplete. She shows that it is possible to be single and still live a full and fulfilling life. Never Have I Ever is a great read for anyone looking for a light-hearted and honest look at being single and happy.
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3. Quirkyalone: a Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics
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I love that Sasha Cagen is able to argue about why people need to start taking their own wants and needs into consideration. After all, there is a reason why the adage "You can't love someone until you love yourself first" transcends generations and resonates with so many people.
Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics is a book written by Sasha Cagen that explores the idea of self-love and how it can be used to create a fulfilling life. The book is divided into four sections: “The Quirkyalone Revolution,” “The Quirkyalone Manifesto,” “The Quirkyalone Mindset,” and “The Quirkyalone Lifestyle.” Through each section, Cagen provides readers with an understanding of the importance of self-love and how it can be used to live a life of joy and fulfillment.
4. Single: the Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled, and Independent
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On iTunes at: itunes.apple.com
"Single is...not a condition to be cured...it's just as natural as being part of a couple. Its wisdom is contagious. Its message is powerful." From this description alone, you can tell just how empowering Judy Ford's book is. She offers really uplifting advice on how to be happy.
Single: The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled, and Independent is a book written by Judy Ford that offers advice on how to be happy while being single. Ford's book is a powerful reminder that being single is not a condition that needs to be cured, but rather a natural part of life that should be embraced. This book is full of uplifting advice that can help readers to feel more confident in their single status.
Single provides insight into how to create a fulfilling life without being part of a couple. It offers advice on how to find contentment and joy while living alone. Ford encourages readers to find strength in their independence and to make the most of their single life. She also provides tips on how to build meaningful relationships and how to make the most of opportunities that come with being single.
Single is a great read for anyone who is single and looking to find more satisfaction in their life. It is full of inspiring stories and advice that can help readers to create a more fulfilling life. Ford's book is a great resource for anyone looking to make the most of their single life and to find joy in being independent.
5. Living Alone and Loving It
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On iTunes at: itunes.apple.com
Single ladies, if you need one more reason why there's nothing wrong with being single and looking for love or being single and not looking, this book is for you. Sometimes, you have to take time for yourself in order to enjoy the little things in life. I love that Barbara Feldon dispenses her own personal experience into the text because it makes her advice more authentic.
Living Alone and Loving It is a book written by Barbara Feldon, which gives single women advice on how to enjoy life and take time for themselves. The book is available on iTunes at itunes.apple.com. Feldon draws from her own personal experiences to offer advice that is both relatable and authentic.
The book encourages readers to take a positive outlook on their single status, and to appreciate the little things in life that make it enjoyable. It also dispels the idea that being single is something to be ashamed of, and encourages readers to take the time to find the right person for them.
Living Alone and Loving It is a great read for any single woman looking for a little bit of guidance and affirmation. It's a great reminder that being single doesn't have to be a negative experience, and that there are plenty of benefits to being single and happy. It's also a great resource for anyone looking for advice on how to make the most out of their single life.
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6. Choosing ME before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love
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On Amazon at: amazon.com
Christine Arlyo's guide on loving life is totally spot on! Everyone should make an effort to be happy on their own terms and not based on society's expectations. The first step to finding happiness is to explore who you are inside and what you're really looking for.
7. The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass
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On Google Play at: play.google.com
Lastly, this is a must read for all women. Mandy Hale just scratches the surface of why self love is so important. With so much stress and expectations on their shoulders, it's no surprise that many people forget that their happiness shouldn't revolve around anyone but themselves.
The overall message behind these books is that you should never settle for less than you deserve. Instead of worrying about what everyone else thinks, it's time that you thought about your own happiness. What are some other books that you've read that celebrate being single and fabulous?
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