7 Books about Being Single and Happy ...

Sometimes, it almost seems as if the older you get, the pressure for you to be in a relationship (and find someone to settle down) becomes really intense; as someone who makes it a point to never let others determine how I live my life, I've never understood the amount of criticism that books about being single and happy have gotten. When I was younger, I used to feel self conscious about the fact that everyone around me seemed to be getting together while I was alone. After realizing that there was nothing wrong with riding solo, I learned to not worry about my status and instead decided to focus on ways to improve my quality of life (and I haven't turned back since). That being said, these books about being single and happy will show you why you should always celebrate your "singledom".

1. It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single

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Reading so many books about being single and happy has really changed my perspective on everyone's two favorite questions to ask: “Are you dating anyone? Why are you still single?” One of the greatest aspects of Sara Eckel's love letter to the single life is the fact that she stresses that there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right person (or not wanting to date at all) and then proceeds to back up her point with stellar research.

2. Never Have I Ever: My Life (so Far) without a Date

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If I didn't already think that we need more books that celebrate being single (and fabulous), I definitely would after reading this brilliant piece by Katie Heaney! After reading this, you'll understand why you should never date for the sake of being in a relationship. Fellow twentysomethings will get a kick out of her humorous and honest nature.

3. Quirkyalone: a Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics

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I love that Sasha Cagen is able to argue about why people need to start taking their own wants and needs into consideration. After all, there is a reason why the adage "You can't love someone until you love yourself first" transcends generations and resonates with so many people.

4. Single: the Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled, and Independent

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"Single is...not a condition to be cured...it's just as natural as being part of a couple. Its wisdom is contagious. Its message is powerful." From this description alone, you can tell just how empowering Judy Ford's book is. She offers really uplifting advice on how to be happy.

5. Living Alone and Loving It

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Single ladies, if you need one more reason why there's nothing wrong with being single and looking for love or being single and not looking, this book is for you. Sometimes, you have to take time for yourself in order to enjoy the little things in life. I love that Barbara Feldon dispenses her own personal experience into the text because it makes her advice more authentic.

6. Choosing ME before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love

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Christine Arlyo's guide on loving life is totally spot on! Everyone should make an effort to be happy on their own terms and not based on society's expectations. The first step to finding happiness is to explore who you are inside and what you're really looking for.

7. The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

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Lastly, this is a must read for all women. Mandy Hale just scratches the surface of why self love is so important. With so much stress and expectations on their shoulders, it's no surprise that many people forget that their happiness shouldn't revolve around anyone but themselves.

The overall message behind these books is that you should never settle for less than you deserve. Instead of worrying about what everyone else thinks, it's time that you thought about your own happiness. What are some other books that you've read that celebrate being single and fabulous?

Frequently Asked Questions

Why are books about being single and happy important?
You know, being single can sometimes feel like you're missing out, but these books remind you that being single is a beautiful phase on its own. They help you focus on self-love, growth, and finding happiness in your own company. It's like having a friend who understands you without judging!
Are there any fiction books that capture the essence of being single?
Oh absolutely! Fiction has this wonderful way of showing us the different shades of life, including the single life. These stories often have characters who embrace their independence, navigate challenges, and find joy and fulfillment in being on their own. They're perfect for when you want to see someone like you leading a strong, independent storyline.
Can these books help me live a fulfilling single life?
Totally! They're more than just stories or advice. These books can guide you to explore what makes you truly happy, teach you to enjoy your own company, and maybe even inspire you to try new things. Just think of them as your personal cheerleaders cheering you on in your single journey!
What's the best way to approach reading these books?
Just dive in with an open mind and heart. Get ready to learn and relate to the experiences shared. If you can, take notes of anything that resonates with you. And remember, every reader's journey is different, so there's no right or wrong way to relate to these books.
Is it okay to feel lonely while reading these books?
Of course, it's natural! These books aren't about avoiding loneliness but embracing it as a part of life. The key is to understand those feelings, and these books often provide perspectives or exercises to help you turn loneliness into solitude—a peaceful, fulfilling space.
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